Or, more specifically, listen to Ice-T and Coco school you on sexy marriage. These guys have been together since 2005, and, as you can see in the picture above, they just renewed their wedding vows, so I think you can trust what they have to say.
Here’s a little segment from their recent interview with Vibe:
But really now, how can I have a marriage that comes with a sex circus of a love life?
Ice T: Marry somebody that turns you the fuck on.
Coco: Don’t think that you’re going to turn them into some sexual demon when you get married. They have to already be the sexual demon beforehand.
Ice T: But wait for your ultimate sexual partner, try that one. That’s a good start. If you start with that and keep that alive, hopefully the person isn’t an idiot and shit doesn’t go wrong. One of the things that help messes up a sex life is just basic stress in the relationship though. If you have a stressful relationship there‘s not going to be sex.
Duly noted. People think you have to try all these crazy things after some years in marriage just to keep it exciting or is it all mental games?
Ice T: You do. That’s part of the fun… trying things out.
Coco: Trying things out. And you don’t have to do it a second time. You just try it once to see if you two connect on that same level. And if it does, your sex life just becomes spicier.
Ice T: It takes you to another level. Trying new things. There’s nothing wrong with it.
I just love these guys. I’m not married or anything, but I hope those of you who are can learn something from these wise souls. There’s no reason why you can’t have a sex circus of a love life, ok?!