Why the Kendra Wilkinson Sex Tape Should Make You Angry
May 27, 2010 at 02:40 pm by Evil Beet

Kendra Wilkinson on the Red Carpet for the Bounty Hunter

We linked you guys earlier in the week to a clip from the Kendra Wilkinson sex tape, and yesterday a 10-minute clip from her teenage sex video hit the ‘net. It’s NOT safe for work, but you can watch it here if you’re so inclined.

This tape is infuriating to me. Not because I have any problem with watching sex on tape — for the record, I watched the Pirates porn last week, and it was better than 75% of the mainstream movies I’ve seen this year. No joke. And normally these celeb sex tapes don’t bother me either, but this one in particular pisses me off.

Kendra doesn’t really want to be videotaped. She says so on quite a few occasions.

“Please don’t do it,” she says. “Please?”

“Kendra,” he says, annoyed. “I’m barely zooming in. Just go.”

“Can you not?”

“You’ll like it. Trust me. Watch. Go.”

Kendra seems resigned to her fate, and, almost instantaneously, she shifts characters, from a very young woman being pressured into a sexual situation she finds uncomfortable to a willing sexpot, grinding obligingly on the bed with a black panther blanket across it. (Jesus Christ.)

As her male companion puts the camera close-up on her vagina, she shuts her legs.

“What?” he whines. “Just do it. Just keep messing around.”

She pushes him and the camera away several times after that, each time slipping instantly back into character as soon as he expresses annoyance.

He begins performing oral sex on her. She’s not entirely comfortable with this. She wriggles around and clamps her legs close, against his head.

“Keep ‘em open. Keep ‘em open. Keep ‘em open. Open your legs. Open ‘em. Open ‘em.”

They have sex. He has trouble staying hard. He’s gross, really — a balding redhead in his early teens or late twenties with a pube-hair goatee, bad teeth and a too-large nose — pudgy and pale all over.

He cums inside her, even though she’s obviously asked him not to. She makes a face and she rolls off the bed. He acts surprised and upset by her action. She tells him she doesn’t like it when he does that. He mutters something about a blow job.

This isn’t a sex tape, really. It’s that thing we talk about that happens to our young women. That thing that we, as grown-ups, write about and research incessantly and condemn broadly, but don’t remember so vividly. It’s right here on video.

It reminds me to some extent of the Paris Hilton sex tape, but even more so here. It’s that space where young women have discovered and perfected their sexuality and its value, but haven’t yet figured out how it’s empowering. They just know that it’s something people want from them; it’s something people expect from them. Something young men expect from them; something, perhaps, that young men haven’t learned how to ask for politely. It’s uncomfortable and new and everybody’s learning, and what happens, more often than not, is that the male partner’s desires come first and more forcefully, and the young woman is disrespected and disempowered and left with a sense that she’s less valuable and less capable of demanding respect and control than her male counterpart — a sense than lingers into her twenties and beyond, even though she might not recognize it as such.

You should not be turned on by this. You should be pissed off.

This isn’t rape — not even close. And Kendra’s not even unhappy the whole time. But you can tell who’s in charge; you can tell who’s in control. It’s made clear. Kendra’s requests are completely ignored; she’s totally disrespected here, naked and exposed.

So the next time some enterprising journalist wants to wax poetic on “what’s happening to our daughters” — to cite studies and surveys and books upon books — maybe she could take ten minutes and watch the Kendra Wilkinson sex tape. What’s happening to them is right here, right on video.

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2,598 Responses to “Why the Kendra Wilkinson Sex Tape Should Make You Angry”

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  1. greel says:
    November 17, 2010 at 10:58 am

    watch Kendra Wilkinson Sex Tape video:

    http://tinyurl.com/3y5ocrl

    enjoy!

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  4. Alex says:
    November 24, 2010 at 9:15 am

    Kendra Wilkinson Sex Tape:

    http://xxxcelebritygossip.blogspot.com/2010/09/kendra-wilkinson-sex-tape.html

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  5. Karen says:
    December 17, 2010 at 2:45 pm

    This is sick! Any old man that has to watch a 18 year old in secret should think of his daughter doing this tape. I wonder what his wife would feel if she knew what her husband had going on in his secret life.

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  6. lolwut says:
    December 18, 2010 at 7:54 pm

    The tape makes you angry because the Kendra isn’t in charge and is having sex with an ugly guy? Waah waah cry me a river.

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  7. RalphGOUKPeterson says:
    December 30, 2010 at 6:47 pm

    Well said. I hadnt really thought of it that way until now.

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  8. fintroll says:
    January 4, 2011 at 1:19 am

    this tape blow up internets

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  9. Chloe says:
    January 16, 2011 at 2:53 pm

    This is soo true! Poor Girl. This is such a horrible thing to do to her. She was young and girls can easily feel preasured into doing things, easily. Especially by someone they trust. It makes me sick how the man in the video is still walking.

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  10. Beel says:
    January 19, 2011 at 1:22 pm

    Fair enough certain things are wrong but from what you’ve said it’s not like she was tied up. Even after the fact she could have destroyed the tape and blah blah blah. Though if you really wanna be angry look at the way she is selling it. And I do mean selling it and others shes made over the years. Think about this maybe she was simply roleplaying to up the sexy or some crap like that. The more dirty version of the pull back girls do when a guy leans in to kiss them.

    NUFF SAID

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  11. Tony says:
    January 21, 2011 at 3:26 pm

    I’m not sure these days what tapes were meant to be private and what was tactically done to generate buzz.

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  12. Maybree says:
    January 23, 2011 at 12:09 pm

    Hey Kendra i am a big fan of yours and i just wanted to know if u can take off your bra and show your boobs plz plz plz plz pretty plz plz plz plz

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  13. WhatWhat? says:
    January 24, 2011 at 9:10 pm

    I agree that how he acted is shameful and disrespectful. He gives people (especially men) everywhere a bad name; however, the writer of this article is acting in a disrespectful way as well. She clearly not only says he is gross based on how he acts but how he also looks. This is a shameful way to act; can’t we comment on the way we choose to behave and not on factors of appearance that possibly can’t be helped (hair colour, etc.). Even if they could be helped, there is no universal definition for a man or woman who is not “gross.” It was an a comment that was lacking and unprofessional; otherwise, a fine and important article.

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  14. Kingvagabond says:
    January 28, 2011 at 1:51 pm

    Good to see yet another blogger who hasn’t bothered researching things before they open their mouth.

    If you had bothered researching properley you would know that the poor innocent virginal girl had made another 6 or 7 films up to this point and tried to sell them which the guy was not involved with.

    Before you make your ‘angry young american’ speeches in the future at least do the research.

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  15. Andrew says:
    February 9, 2011 at 11:03 pm

    Maybe the writer of this article “could take ten minutes and watch the Kendra Wilkinson sex tape” and she’d find that Kendra was saying:

    “Please don’t zoom in. Please?”

    not

    “Please don’t do it. Please?”

    So that you don’t have to incessantly research that, it’s at about the 2:45 mark.

    She was not against the taping; just the close-ups. This is common with models or people who do stills. Another example is a preferred side. It’s not that they don’t want to be photographed or filmed, they might just prefer it done a certain way.

    That said, he did lie about not zooming in (barely).

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  16. Jay Martin says:
    March 15, 2011 at 6:36 am

    Maybe You all are stuck up. Celebrity sex tapes are more hotter and real than fucking crappy acting porn which is pratically donkey shit for sales. THIS IS FUCKING AMERICA FREEDOM OF SPEECH AND VIDEO(I JUST THINK PEOPLE SHOULD NOT SELL THE TAPES BUT GIVE IT FOR FREE THAT WAY IT BE MORE LEGAL)

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  17. Bart Simpson says:
    March 21, 2011 at 7:03 am

    I watched the tape and there’s no evidence that Kendra was coerced. To the contrary, she appears to be enjoying herself quite a bit. Sorry, but I’m not going to buy in the politically correct tone of this article.

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  18. kyle says:
    March 23, 2011 at 3:48 am

    I couldn’t disagree with the author more.
    The only problem Kendra had was she was a bit uncomfortable with the camera, but only with close ups. She dances in front of the damn thing for 5 minutes then has sex and is really into it most of the time, laughing. Then of course her gyrating body which is fine as hell by the way makes him bust but like a gentleman he catches it. Then like a dunce, she looks for a sock or rag or something and takes like 10 minutes to find him a rag, but only finds his shirt. Of course he gets a little upset, and she wines a little. Whatever, it happens.
    The good on this is that its not staged like all the other fake ass boring sex tapes. Kendra looks really good and natural. She dances like a professional stripper and and has fun in front of the camera.
    The bad: The dude aint brad pitt, but who gives a crap. The sound is out of sync, it’s not a professionally made sex tape. Other than that, a guy should like it.

    Anyway, the author is a moron, Kendra is ready and willing, and they actually get along well. Quit trying to stir things up.

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  19. chuck says:
    March 30, 2011 at 4:53 pm

    I watched this tape quite a while ago and it definitely made me angry. Not about Kendra being coerced, though. (I fast forwarded through all the talky bits.) For me, it was anger over spending good money on 20 mins of poorly shot nonsense. Celebrity sex vids belong on the internet where you can see them for free. As for this article, I take exception with the author disparaging the guy’s physical appearance. I found it refreshing she wasn’t just about dating “adonis” types.

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  20. Blow Me says:
    May 5, 2011 at 2:31 am

    At least this guy is white and not some 7 foot savage that should be chasing zebras with paint on his face.

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  21. kelli says:
    May 24, 2011 at 3:56 pm

    First of all Blow Me, he is not a savage according to you! He is very well educated and graduated college, did you? It is racist people like you, that got a serious issue, Grow Up!!

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  22. huxley says:
    June 5, 2011 at 5:36 pm

    The writer of this article should do a little more research. Kendra is the one who actually sold her tape (this tape), and received $680,000 from Vivid for it plus a 50% royalty on all sales. If she objected to the tape or release of the tape – she wouldn’t have sold it.

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  23. Kiv says:
    June 20, 2011 at 11:35 pm

    Well, be prepared to be controlled and manipulated if you are weak. No one deserves pity for this or anger for this. This could have been any pair of people. If she wasn’t strong enough a person to stick to her guns, she shouldn’t have put herself in that position. She could have broken that camera if she wanted, she could have left, she could have not bothered going out with a scumbag at all.

    If you are weak, someone somewhere is going to get something out of you. And weak is a relative term, so chances are, everyone at some point is taken advantage of. Live, learn, grow.

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  24. anon says:
    July 3, 2011 at 10:01 am

    The author is not too clever, me thinks.

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  25. James D says:
    July 8, 2011 at 2:45 am

    I felt disgusted by that guy (and not from his very ugly features!) he was very forceful and disrespectful. I think he even said “you shut up” what a scumbag! Anyways how did a guy like him (very very very ugly face and an absolutely horrible personality) get a good looking girl like kendra?
    Watching this video made me feel disturbed when i saw how kendra was treated, then i felt good when i compared my self to that asshole

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  26. Fuck you douches says:
    October 20, 2011 at 1:31 pm

    I see a lot of limp dick internet perves are pissed you called some ass on his weird manipulative sex.

    Real men don’t fuck like this or manipulate younger women into weird sex.

    Before some 40 year old fucktard driving a corvette mouths some fake alpha shit, shut the fuck up.

    I’m a 6’4 powerlifter who is young, hung and full of cum. Man up bitches and play nice or I will beat you retarded.

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