Oh man, guys. The melodrama of it all (who am I kidding; I’m just as busted-up over this apparent breakup as anyone else who loves these two as a couple and the Twilight franchise). The ubiquitous angst just coming off Kristen Stewart in WAVES in these pictures, as she attempts to start living her life as a normal person who doesn’t happen to be going through tremendous remorse and heartbreak.
No, but seriously, sources close to Kristen are saying that she’s inevitably headed toward a mental breakdown. From Us Weekly, claims that Kristen’s gone back home to her parents’ house because she just can’t deal anymore, and she doesn’t do anything but cry these days. A source says, “She [Kristen] isn’t sleeping and she stays up all night crying. She’s close to a total meltdown.” Other “friends” of Kristen say that she’s absolutely “distraught” and also angry that Rupert Sanders (you know, the big, festering bag of dicks who happens to be married and who has, you know, two kids) isn’t getting as much backlash as she has. The source spilling to Us claims that it’s all Sanders’ fault anyway, and that his manipulation led to a “stupid” affair. The moles says, “[Sanders] is manipulative. She didn’t go after this guy — he sought her out and she stupidly went for it.”
Yes, stupidly indeed, but if these rumors about Kristen not eating and not sleeping and crying all the time are true, then maybe someone (ahem, Robert Pattinson) should intervene. Yeah, she “deserves” to mope and sulk and bellyache about her “momentary indiscretion” and the flak it’s brought her and her career, but if her regret and guilt and sadness about the situation is driving her to a mental and/or emotional episode, come on. Staying away when a person you once cared about so wholly and so desperately is practically coming apart? Now how nice is that?
On a side note, this is what I imagine is going on at Kristen’s parents’ house in the wee hours of the morning (I know; I … just, I know, OK?):
And if this is what’s happening? Well. I’m sad, OK? I’m sad.
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Im not sure if I’m the only one to say this but hey they broke up and that means it’s not Rob’s duty to intervene or save her anymore or whatever.
Look at it this way, if a woman’s living-in with her boyfriend then he f*cked his officemate (with pictures of them being intimate to boot!) then they break up and the guy had all these remorse and other “no longer have the will to live” shit then I doubt people will ask the girl or even insinuate that she should intervene and i dont know, maybe make her feel better?
That’s very unfair to the guy. Kristen broke up their relationship and that’s it. Sadly, that’s the end of it. You dont make mistakes like that and expect your ex to welcome you with open arms or even make you feel better with what you’re going through coz obviously, he’s going through the same shit as you are. If he appeared to have move on then good for him. No reason to throw stines at him for moving on too quickly.
Personally, it’s wrong and definitely not healthy for Rob to help her.
People break up all the time. She just has to deal with whatever repercussions she’s experiencing now.
I get what you’re saying, and while I can understand and agree to a certain extent, I think it also probably hedges on what kind of relationship the two had to begin with. Say, like, for example—I’m married (no, really, I am). If my husband went out and cheated on me, I wouldn’t hesitate for a second in immediately filing for divorce. To me, that’s something that’s, while eventually forgivable, unforgettable, and something that I know would drive a wedge between the two of us down the road, anyway, so why would I even bother with a reconciliation? Knowing the type of person I am, I can grudgingly admit that if I were to decide to stay with him despite the incident, I’d probably hold it over his head for the rest of our lives, and continually worry that it might happen again. Realistically, how fair would that be to either one of us? Not at all.
Since I got off on that tangent, there, let me briefly regroup—if my husband cheated, I’d immediately leave him, no questions asked. But because we’ve had a long and involved history with one another, I’d try my best to put my hurt feelings aside if he felt massive remorse and needed closure, or “forgiveness,” or even if he just needed to hear it once, twice, or even three times that it was most definitely over. Though he violated my trust in the most intimate of ways, I’d still care about him, and care about his feelings, too. I just … wouldn’t be able to be with him anymore.
You know?
Yeah, I get what you’re saying, but my point here is that I think it’s unfair for Rob for us to think that he should reach out to her to make her feel better especially now that she is in a bad place.
I mean, maybe Rob will always care for her no matter what but that doesn’t mean that he has to comfort her. I really think it’s a double standard; look at that Facinelli guy, it’s been said that *maybe* he cheated on his wife, they broke up, their marriage are ruined and people are calling him an ass for cheating on her and leaving her. He could be hurting too for all we know right, (it’s just that there are no reports on him eating ice cream to ease the pain of the broken marriage and all) but we don’t insinuate for the wife to comfort him, you know what I’m saying?
I thought of the whole New Moon meltdown parallel too
Shes just upset that Rupert didn’t leave his wife for her.
Uh, yeah, no. Probably not. That said, she needs to work this out sans Robert Pattinson. Why the hell should he, of all people, be the one to step in and help her feel better about the break-up? That’s ridiculous. They had a relationship, she was the one who cheated (the one caught, at any rate), they broke up and now she feels shitty. They’re so young and she made a mistake. Doesn’t make her an awful person, it just happens. Gonna have to deal, my dear.
I definitely disagree with cheating, but if you look a little deeper, I really think it was a moment of indiscretion on her part. The guy was 42 and knows how to get girls, especially that young. She is still quite naive to men no matter how much anyone thinks she’s been around the block. The guy was probably sending her messages telling her what he would like to do to her for months, creating fantasies and lure that was difficult to not think about. On top of that he was touching her a lot, putting her hair behind her ears, basically grooming her. The guy is a sick creep and should take most of the blame. She should be forgiven because I think she more than likely knows what true love is at this point. There relationship could be the best it has ever been if he truly loved her. Love is willing to forgive, she would never forget that. But obviously his love is shallow if he can’t see past his nose to understand what happened and forgive her.
well it is 12/9/2012…and looking at these post it sure looked bad…..I agree..whatever Rob would have done ..would be right..keep her leave her….But he did the right thing..she was “groomed”…and Frank you got it right…he played her like a fiddle…and was in control of her..I believe her priorties were wrong…Fame vs Relationship….and that s just part of it….Kristen was looking for validation..and sure enough the rat gave it to her…There was no affair..just a one time blind-sided attack…she admired him, and he made her feel good about her self….what a wake up call for Kristen…..major!