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Kristin Cavallari and Jay Cutler Split long time coming

People Mag is pulling in all their snitches to get the scoop on the Kristen Cav and Jay Culter split.  A source said, “Kristin and Jay had been having problems for a long time. They hadn’t spent much time together in recent months.”

On Sunday, Cavallari, 33, announced she and the former NFL quarterback, 36, are getting divorced after seven years of marriage and a decade-long romance. They share sons Camden, 7, and Jaxon, 5, and 4-year-old daughter Saylor.

“With great sadness, after 10 years together we have come to a loving conclusion to get a divorce,” Cavallari wrote. “We have nothing but love and respect for one another and are deeply grateful for the years shared, memories made, and the children we are so proud of. This is just the situation of two people growing apart. We ask everyone to respect our privacy as we navigate this difficult time within our family.”

Prior to announcing their split, Cavallari and Cutler returned home after a three-week trip to the Bahamas, which was supposed to be a spring break vacation with their children as well as her hairstylist Justin Anderson and his fiancé Austin “Scoot” Rhodes.

“On their recent trip, they already knew they were splitting up,” the source tells PEOPLE. “The reason they announced it now is because it’s a quiet time for them to work through all of this and try to move forward.”