We don’t talk much about Niecy Nash around here, and I don’t quite know why not. After all, she’s batshit crazy, and we love that, so… clearly I fell off on that one. But I’m here to make things right! I mean, how can I not share Niecy’s recent interview with Playboy, wherein she talks about random shit including her book (It’s Hard to Fight Naked) how ladies should give their man a blow job every day if they want to stay married forever. Kewl advice, tell me more!
What I say in the book is, “A BJ a day keeps the divorce attorney away” and I say that because I feel like men are profoundly simplistic, which is the reason I wanted to call my book what I used as the title of chapter three, which is, “Stomach Full, Penis Empty: A Woman’s Guide to a Happy Marriage.” Keeping him fed and drained, you have no problem. We are really more complicated than they are and I think that women are more generous with oral sex because we nurture by nature. We want to be pleasing by nature, that’s in our DNA, so I think that a lot of the behavior we’re looking for sexually, you might have to educate your partner. Sometimes, men just assume they’re going to get it and you need to be like, “Give me mine. Ladies first.”
What’s so interesting is that [women are] more willing to have conversations about “Do you want to get married? Where do you see this relationship going? Do you want to have children?” than we are to ask, “What kind of sex do you like? What are you into there?” You know what I mean? And that’s a conversation that a lot of people dive into but if you’re going to be with someone for the rest of your life and they’re failing to meet your sexual needs is like doing a slow dance with death. We need to make sure we can meet right there in the middle. The best thing that could have ever happened to me, and I was so fearful when I did it, was I got my tubes tied and had a hysterectomy. It gives me and my husband a different liberty — we can do what we do anytime, anywhere, at a moment’s notice. So that’s a sidebar into my situation, but I can get the party started.
I mean, I… guess I can kinda see what she’s saying… sorta? By that I mean, when you’re in a relationship with someone long term, you want to make sure ALL of their needs are met – emotional, mental, physical, and yes, sexual. But if you’re using blow jobs to keep your relationship together, chances are you’re covering up far bigger problems than sex can fix.
Anyhoo, I’m probably not the best person to sound off on this one. Ladies (and applicable gentlemen)?
Is she married to that Mike Seaver dude?
There’s something about that picture that scares me.
“Stomach Full, Penis Empty: A Woman’s Guide to a Happy Marriage” This nauseates me in so many ways.
I am SO tired of this “men are simple creatures, give them a blowjob and a sammich and they’ll be happy” nonsense.
Yes, taking care of your partner is important, in and out of the bedroom, but to reduce men to nothing more than a walking penis with a stomach is insulting to say the least. Imagine the outcry if a man summed up women in a similar manner – the guy would be strung up by the balls.
You want a happy marriage? Try treating your partner as a respected equal, not a simpleton.
Well, that is HER secret. LOL. alrighty, then.
So these 5 comments were left by single women obviously cause shorty seriously just gave you the key & yall like “Nah, I’ll keep complicating thing.” Damn near every man KNOWS we’re simple. A bj & meal EVERYDAY may not save a failing marriage but it sure as fuck can stop that shit from ever getting to that point. She is giving prevention techniques so if you don’t work out with your man, you know it’s probably your chemistry doesn’t match, but she gave you the easiest guide. If you don’t wanna do it, you don’t wanna do it but don’t stand in between a man & the toilet & be mad that it rained