Thank you so much to everyone who wrote in to tell us about your favorite bedroom co-star. I, personally, learned a whole lot, and I hope you guys will take the time to glance through our final gallery to get some ideas about how you can spice up your sex lives.
The winning entries are after the jump. (Again, not especially safe for work.)
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My favorite toy, and I DO love my toys, is a simple pair of glass ben wa balls. You can check them out here: http://www.fascinations.net/store/product/129837/GLASS-BEN-WA-BALLS/
I wear them in my pussy while I’m making dinner, before my date arrives. He’ll ask me to wear them ahead of time, so he knows I have them in, so he can be thinking about me with those pretty glass balls sliding around inside me while he’s on the drive over. He knows they’re there while we have dinner, and he asks me about them. Tells me how hot it makes him to know I am wearing them for him. The smooth glass inside me makes me wet, so I’m already very turned on by the time we get to the main event of the evening.
I leave them in during sex, because they increase the sensation for both of us. They don’t damage a condom, and they get pushed around by his cock; making me feel fuller and making my orgasms more intense. He loves how they make me respond to his thrusts.
Sometimes, if I’m not wearing them ahead of time, he’ll ask me to put them in a glass of ice water by the bed. Then he slides those cold, wet balls into my pussy during foreplay, and pushes them around inside me with his fingers. The sensation of the cold glass on my hot flesh is very erotic.
My favorite toy is a dual-sided cock ring, which you can buy here.
A dual-sided wireless cock-ring has made mine and my partner’s time in the bedroom amazing. One of the small vibrators sits under the male genitals while the other sits on the base of top of the penis, and during intercourse, it makes direct contact with the clitoris. The stimulation is unbelievable. The cock-ring is also known to prolong the male orgasm, so everyone wins. We don’t use it all the time, but it is certainly something that we like to keep around at all times. They are also reasonably priced (less than $20 usually), making them not a huge financial commitment if you’re wary of the product. Also, the vibrating bullets are removable, making them accessible for use directly on the clitoris and not necessarily only through the cock-ring. There are a lot of other varieties and similar products, but as far as a toy that is mutually beneficial to both partners, this is certainly my favorite.
My favorite sex toy is the Jollies Jollet vibrator.
Actually, my favorite sex toy is the hard vibrator inside the Jollet because the silicone outside doesn’t vibrate intensely enough to get me off. Between my many medications and medical conditions, I didn’t think I could orgasm at all anymore. The vibrator has given me the most intense orgasms of my life. I almost cried the first time it worked because that meant I wasn’t completely defective.
My boyfriend, who I almost didn’t go out with because of my sexual dysfunction, likes to use the vibrator on me to get me off before he penetrates me. Sometimes we insert the vibrator inside me while he rubs my clit at the same time. Those orgasms make me see stars.
When I use the vibrator alone, I like to get myself off, wait a couple hours, and then use the vibrator again. My clit is still tender, but not so tender the vibration hurts, and I orgasm in about 60 seconds. I’m usually too shy to make any noise, alone or with my boyfriend, but that second orgasm usually makes me cry out. I’m glad I don’t live in an apartment anymore.
If you have a difficult time reaching orgasm, buy a hard vibrator. If it’s not working for you, turn the intensity up. It’s the only thing that’s worked for me in 30 years.